I want to have my cake and eat it too.

[gemfyre]

Nobody is perfect.
Nobody will ever be perfect for someone else.

But bits of many people can provide all the parts of a perfect person, and most are perfectly willing to accept the flaws as well.

So - why is it not the acceptable thing to have a lot of people, and enjoy the little bits of perfection in them all?

Comments

[jet-ski.livejournal.com]

Flaws do make for complications.
Poly relationships sometimes do make for ugly power trips.
Some people are cut out for it and others aren't.
My ex ran off with the first other person she got involved with in our attempt at polyamoury. She's with her in London as we speak.
One of the girls I was with completely shut me out of her life for a reason I couldn't comprehend. The s ense of loss for me was pretty overwhelming.
The other girl is in Holland and I didn't even know her last name.