I want to have my cake and eat it too.

[gemfyre]

Nobody is perfect.
Nobody will ever be perfect for someone else.

But bits of many people can provide all the parts of a perfect person, and most are perfectly willing to accept the flaws as well.

So - why is it not the acceptable thing to have a lot of people, and enjoy the little bits of perfection in them all?

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[gemfyre.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I know you're one of those open people.

And you and Kaneda seem AWFULLY happy most of the time so from what I've seen it certainly works.

My main problem is jealousy - in myself and others - it's a feeling I wish didn't exist.

[mynxii.livejournal.com]

its tackleable though? its not impossible - its along the lines of making a deliberate choice to change certain reactions/thought processes - what are they except a waste of energy in any case? energy that could be put to much better use in hugging someone ^_^ *purrrrrrrr* on that note, you are gorgeous and sweet and good company - so you have nothing to be jealous of others for ^_^ you have your own special and valuable place in the lives of those you know and care about, and vice versa... does that make sense at all?

mmmm kaneda *blissful sigh*

happy ^_^ *bounce bounce bounce bounce*

we make a lot of room for each other to be individual... it helps... the less restriction we pose, the less we seem to feel about and move it... if that also makes sense, perhaps a better way to say it would be, less of a need to use such lack of restriction...